Who is herbeautyspeaks ? a question that a few might be wondering to themselves. Well, I’ll be more than glad to let you in on who she is. She is a woman who has been through some experiences which made her into the person she is now. the name herbeautyspeaks runs deeply within the blood of her veins. It is more than just a random ‘title’ to her. herbeautyspeaks, but most know her first name to be Destiny. A name that truly fits who she is very well. She is a woman of God, one who didn’t always see the beauty in herself, one who for years couldn’t come to terms of her own reflection. she is a lover, one who will give her very last to someone in need, she is one who tries her best to learn from the mistakes that have been made, she is a daughter, sister, friend, one who holds the true values of life close to her heart. she is an artist, one who always had a creative side, she is just like you.
As I am writing this, I can’t help but to reminisce on those times where I had no clue as to who I was. It was extremely difficult to even see myself as the beautiful being that I was and have grown to be. I went years without being who God had made me to be with every fiber and bone that laid within me. Those were some rough times in my life, that didn’t seem to be very beneficial for me as those challenges were occurring. I want everyone who reads this to know that I wasn’t always the person I am today. People meaning (close friends, family, etc) used to continuously tell me how amazing, loving, humble, and sweet I was but I never really believed their words because I didn’t feel that way about myself. I felt ugly, I felt unworthy, I didn’t like nor love anything about myself pertaining to the (physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional) realms. I couldn’t even face the sight of my own body let alone parts of who I was without the feeling of disgust seeping through. I don’t mind speaking on where I came from as a person / woman because I know that there are others in this world who may either be going through the same issues or worse. If this pertains to you, please know that you are loved, worthy, amazing, beautiful/handsome, and unlike any other. And I am not just saying this so that you can feel good about this read, but to truly help you see that someone cares for and about you. I don’t believe that you have to solely know someone personally to love and care about them. After all, Jesus did die for us right ? regardless of the matter as to where He knew us or not, he died so that we could live in HIM and in H I M alone.
I believe in you, whatever is going on will not last forever. YOU will BE OKAY, I PROMISE you. that things will change, for me those things did not change overnight, it took years honestly it all felt like an eternity. BUT, do know this, that nothing is impossible with God. He will help you, heal you, love you, comfort you, strengthen you, guide you, teach you. you do not have to spend your life worrying and/or feeling as though you don’t matter because you most certainly do. and trust, when I say that I am here for you. I love how the Lord instructed this read to be more so about the next person rather than myself. Which is such a wonderful thing to me. I hope and do pray that these words will help you to see the brighter side of life, love, others, and the world that we live in. I love you. I support you. Don’t give up. the best is on it’s way.
If you want to talk please, feel free to email me at herbeautyspeakss@gmail.com,
do know that I’ll be sure to respond and help you out as much as I can.
much love,
– herbeautyspeaks.